How to Foster a Growth Mindset in Preschoolers

As parents and educators, we want our preschoolers to develop confidence, perseverance, and a love for learning. One of the best ways to do this is by fostering a growth mindset—the belief that abilities can improve with effort, practice, and persistence.

Preschoolers are naturally curious, and this stage is the perfect time to help them see challenges as opportunities rather than obstacles. So how can we cultivate a growth mindset in young children? Here are some simple yet powerful strategies.

1. Use Encouraging Language

The way we talk to children shapes how they see themselves and their abilities. Instead of praising results, focus on effort, persistence, and progress.

🔹 Instead of: “You’re so smart!” Try: “I love how hard you worked on that puzzle!”

🔹 Instead of: “You’re a great artist!” Try: “I see you kept trying different colors. That’s creative problem-solving!”

This helps children understand that success comes from effort rather than fixed abilities.

2. Normalize Mistakes as Learning Opportunities

Many preschoolers get frustrated when they make mistakes, but it’s important to teach them that mistakes are part of learning. When a child struggles, instead of fixing it for them, guide them through the process.

🔹 Say: “Oops! That didn’t work. What can we try next?”

🔹 Share your own mistakes and what you learned from them.

🔹 Read books where characters overcome challenges. (E.g., The Most Magnificent Thing by Ashley Spires)

3. Teach the Power of "Yet"

One of the simplest ways to shift a child’s mindset is to introduce the word “yet.”

🔹 “I can’t do this” → “I can’t do this yet.”

🔹 “This is too hard” → “This is tricky, but I can keep trying.”

This small shift helps children see challenges as things they can work through rather than fixed limitations.

4. Encourage Problem-Solving and Resilience

When preschoolers face difficulties, encourage them to think of solutions rather than giving up.

🔹 Ask open-ended questions: “What else can you try?” “What would happen if…?”

🔹 Give them time to work through challenges instead of rushing to help.

🔹 Celebrate perseverance: “You didn’t give up, and look what you did!”

5. Model a Growth Mindset Yourself

Children learn best by watching the adults around them. Show them how you approach challenges with a growth mindset.

🔹 Let them see you try new things and talk through your learning process.

🔹 Say things like, “I’m still learning how to do this, but I’m going to keep practicing.”

🔹 Show patience and resilience when facing setbacks.

6. Make Learning Fun and Play-Based

Preschoolers learn best through play! Encourage open-ended activities like:

Art and Building – Let them experiment with materials, make mistakes, and revise their ideas.

Puzzles and Games – Teach them to try different strategies rather than rushing to the solution.

Outdoor Exploration – Let them observe nature and ask curious questions.

The goal is to create an environment where children feel safe to explore, fail, and try again.

Final Thoughts

A growth mindset isn’t just about academics—it’s about building confidence, problem-solving skills, and resilience for life. By using the right language, modeling persistence, and encouraging effort, we can help preschoolers develop a love for learning that lasts a lifetime.